Lets talk about... Love

Now I am no expert on this topic and I can for sure say that I have had some good and bad experiences when it comes to love.


Over the past 5 years I have learned a thing or two about what Love actually is and how much it actually means to feel it. I have come up with a few ideas based on the things that I have learned throughout my time in relationships.

I don't know how I feel about you
Whether you have been in a relationship and want to rekindle it or if you like someone but they don't know how to feel. Don't try to force them into an answer because it will be the same answer every time. However sometimes they figure it out and let you know but other times they will just string you along. Do you really want to become trapped in the idea that someone could love you? I believe that you are worth more and you can move on from the person.

Anxiety in relationships
If you are like me and have an anxiety disorder. Don't let it hold you back when you have found love. Your partner can only take so much when you let Anxiety control you, you become more withdrawn from your love life. I found that when you feel you have to hold back you are not actually putting 100% into it. If you have let your partner know that you have anxiety and they accept it and help you face it, Brilliant.

Always put in 100%
Its not all about you, you have to make your other half feel wanted/needed. No matter what you are going through don't allow them to feel shut out or pushed aside. Lean on each other for support. If you are having a rough time speak to them about it and don't forget to ask about them. There is no worse feeling in a relationship than when you feel shut out. Talking is key for any relationship whether its romantic or just friendship. By making suttle gestures to display your love you will definitely feel the benefits even if you don't receive any back just giving them makes it worth a lot.

Maintaining a happy relationship is supposed to have its problems. We cant get through everything without making a mistake or creating an argument. I for sure know that feeling because I went through a period of time where I just picked fights for no reason but now I barely have arguments with my boyfriend so I seriously stand by the talking is key statement. if you don't talk problems linger and only worsen.

Never give up on love. Move on when you know its time to let go. It will be hard to but honestly set your self free from what could only be a fantasy.

Love you all.
From, Emily xx