Sunday 31 July 2016

My top 5 must read books


I'm a huge fan of reading and one of the things I really enjoy is having a conversation with people about their favourite books. I really think it helps me get to know them a lot more, so I wanted to share with you guys just 5 of my must read books!


The Declaration
by Gemma Malley






"The Declaration opens in the year 2140, and people have conquered death in the form of Longevity drugs. With limited food and fuel resources, waste has become a serious crime and the worst crime of all is having a child. Anna is one of these children. She is housed at Grange Hall where she and other Surpluses are taught that the most they can ever hope for is a harsh life of servitude to make amends for their existence.

Anna is well on her way to becoming a Valuable Asset when Peter arrives at Grange Hall. He challenges everything she has learned by arguing that people who take Longevity are the real criminals and perversions of nature, not the young. He also claims that he knows her parents and that they want her back. Peter is strange and new, but is he enough to make her risk everything to escape with him?"


This book I've had since I was around 11 years old and never over the past 8 years have I gotten bored of it. It's an amazing dystopian thriller that has always had me burning the midnight oil. It set me up to be a big fan of Gemma Malley's other stories...and I've now realised that there are actually another 2 books which are sequels to this one...so there's a spending spree going on right now!

Buy it here: The Declaration


FangirlBy Rainbow Rowell




"Cath and Wren are identical twins, and until recently they did absolutely everything together. Now they're off to university and Wren's decided she doesn't want to be one half of a pair any more - she wants to dance, meet boys, go to parties and let loose. It's not so easy for Cath. She's horribly shy and has always buried herself in the fan fiction she writes, where she always knows exactly what to say and can write a romance far more intense than anything she's experienced in real life.

Without Wren Cath is completely on her own and totally outside her comfort zone. She's got a surly room-mate with a charming, always-around boyfriend, a fiction-writing professor who thinks fan fiction is the end of the civilized world, a handsome classmate who only wants to talk about words . . . And she can't stop worrying about her dad, who's loving and fragile and has never really been alone.

Now Cath has to decide whether she's ready to open her heart to new people and new experiences, and she's realizing that there's more to learn about love than she ever thought possible . . ."


Emily first introduced me to this book in late 2014 (I think) and I read it in like 5 hours. I think it's one of the first books with links to Mental Health that I've ever read, and it was so tastefully done. I instantly felt a connection to Cath and her boy struggles. I fell in love with the characters and bought myself a copy as soon as I'd finished reading. It's still one that I pick up regularly to read, and the fact that it's become a widely known book lately has made me so happy!

Buy it here: Fangirl


Don't let anything dull your sparkleBy Doreen Virtue



"Difficult relationships and challenging circumstances all come down to one thing: drama. In this ground-breaking book, Doreen Virtue guides you through the process of determining your Drama Quotient. You'll discover how much stress you are unnecessarily tolerating and absorbing from other people and the situations you find yourself in.

Doreen explains the physiological reasons why you can become addicted to high-drama relationships, jobs and lifestyles, and how to heal from this cycle. You'll come to understand why traumatic events from the past may have triggered post-traumatic symptoms, including anxiety, weight gain and addictions, and you'll learn natural and scientifically supported methods for restoring balance to your body and your life.

Doreen shows you how to:

- Deal with relatives, friends and co-workers who are 'hooked'? on drama
- Assess your own level of drama addiction
- Relieve stress and bring about inner peace

Go on an overall Drama Detox to clear away negativity and let your light shine through!"


For me, I'm always trying to better myself. One of the things I try the hardest with is breaking away from negativity and trying to understand how my past has influenced my present...and therefore how I can move past it. This book has been so interesting and has definitely given me some food for thought.

Buy it here: Don't let anything dull your sparkle


Practical magicby Alice Hoffman


"Sisters Gillian and Sally Owens were brought up by their two elderly guardian aunts in a world of spells and exotica. As the magical charm of their childhood wears away, they escape from this mystical mayhem - one by running away, the other by marrying.

Many years go by before strange circumstances thrust them together again, and once more they are in a place that blends the mundane and mysterious, the familiar and fantastic. Three generations of Owens women are brought together in an experience of unexpected insight and revelation, teaching all of them that such perceptions are rare and wonderful and - to be sure - practical."


It's a tale of love, family, magic and acceptance. I first became a fan of the film when I was a child, so naturally (always being a fan of books more than films) I had high hopes for the book....and it did not disappoint. It was a truly magical experience.

My favourite ending passage:
" there are a few things, after all that Sally Owens knows for certain: Always throw spilled salt over your left shoulder. Keep Rosemary by your garden gate. Add pepper to your mashed potatoes. Plant roses and lavender, for luck. Fall in love whenever you can"

Buy it here: Practical Magic



You can heal your lifeby Louise Hay



"If we are willing to do the mental work, almost anything can be healed" Louise Hay


"Life Is Really Very Simple. What We Give Out, We Get Back What we think about ourselves becomes the truth for us. I believe that everyone, myself included, is responsible for everything in our lives, the best and the worst. Every thought we think is creating our future. Each one of us creates our experiences by our thoughts and our feelings. The thoughts we think and the words we speak create our experiences."


The book shows us that through changing the way that we think, and by using different mantras and thought patterns, any physical or emotional issues can be overcome! It's even been tried and tested for drug users trying to overcome their addictions...and it was successful.


What are some of your favourite books to read?
Love,
Louise x
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Sunday 24 July 2016

Guys and Dolls



Photo credit: http://www.theatreroyal.com/whats-on/2016/guys-and-dolls/


So yesterday I went on an outing with my grandparents and my aunt to the Grand Theatre. When I was told that we were seeing a play that was set in the 50's I was worried. its one of those situations where you think " I'm either gonna love it or hate it"....and guess what? I LOVED IT!

It didn't seem like we were sitting there for a little over 3 hours at all. I was captivated right from the start with the lovable characters Nicely-Nicely Johnson and Benny Southstreet. They were your typical full of fun characters that you could put anywhere, In any kind of situation and still have a chuckle with.

The musical is about Maxwell Caufield as Nathan Detroit, in search for a new location for his illegal craps game, with the only available space asking for $1000 cash in advance. Detroit is forever in need of cash and so has to place a bet with sky Masterson, a man known for his weird and wacky bets. Richard Fleeshman plays a wonderful Masterson with a wonderful voice

The show continues to take us through Detroit's avoidance of marriage after 14 years of engagement to show girl, Miss Adelaide (Louise Dearman) and Masterson's sticky relationship with missionary Miss Sarah Brown. Bethany Lindsell is wonderful in her role as Brown and truly showcases the religious and slightly naive nature of the very lovable character, as the bet slowly turns into a blossoming romance. It's a truly wondeful mixture of love, living life on the edge and friendships.
http://www.behindthearras.com/Reviewspr/reviewsPRapr-jul2016/guys-and-dolls-review-Wolverhampton-Grand-G07-16.html

Truly a great performance by all, and the staff all did an amazing job!

Louise x
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Sunday 3 July 2016

Travel// My mini trip to Cardiff

So last week me and my boyfriend set off on a mini adventure to Cardiff, Wales little did I know that it would test me on how well I handle my anxiety.

Wednesday morning before heading to my boyfriends house I felt completely fine. I finished my packing, got ready and prepared myself for the day ahead. However on the bus journey to his house I was flushed with anxiety. My palms were sweaty, I felt sick, I was shaking and was overall feeling quite panicky for anyone who suffers from anxiety will understand that if you don't get over this anxiety it will get much worse and so it did. To cut a long story short I threw up at my boyfriends house which was completely embarrassing but thankfully his family were out and it was just us.

I did eventually get over my anxiety when we got on the direct train from Birmingham to Cardiff. Throughout my mental turmoil my boyfriend stayed calm and helped me as much as he could.

We had a fantastic trip in the end where we visited a few attractions, went shopping and ended up clubbing. The experience of the whole trip was amazing. I pushed myself out of my comfort zone. I was unwell while we were there but I carried on like a trooper.

Where we visited in 1 day:
  • Cardiff Castle 
  • The Doctor Who Experience
  • St Davids Shopping centre
  • Walkabout (The club we ended up in)

We stayed at the Clayton Hotel next to the train station. The hotel was lovely, the atmosphere was pleasant. The only downside is that we had a room right above the train station so we lost out on a lot of sleep due to passing trains all night long. Overall it was great.

My next trip with my boyfriend is my family holiday which is a true test of our relationship as we will be together 24/7 for 2 weeks.

Push yourself and find something amazing!

Love,
Emily xxx

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